My wife, Phyliss, stood by me at the trial and promised to wait for me. I had been found guilty for doing some creative financial bookkeeping with a bank I worked at. It all started when I was sentenced to five years at a maximum-security prison. And no matter how ridiculous that sounds it is true and it did save my life. Yet, two weeks before my twenty-first birthday I was introduced to gay sex and explained how if it was done right it would eventually save my life. I had never wanted sex with a man before and certainly never thought I would ever have such an experience. I was happily married and sexually satisfied for two years. Aside from a couple of blowjobs, and some mutual masturbation, I had never had sex with a man before.
